The most important thing to Ben and me was starting a family, so as soon as we got engaged, we booked Gurney's in Montauk - which is just a few miles down the beach from our summer home - as our wedding venue a full year and a half out, and then we immediately started trying to get pregnant.
She can't even chew gum and walk in a straight line, let alone write a book.
The idea of sitting at home, not making music, just makes me want to throw up.
I didn't always want to be a dad.